In our society everyone is always in a rush. Always trying to get
somewhere or do something for them. So have we gotten so busy and caught up in
our own lives that we fail to notice the people around us? All it takes is a
little time and effort to brighten someone's day. Is it really that hard? Or
are our own lives more important?
You may not realize, but you can make someone's day ten times better
just by acknowledging them. You can do this anywhere; when you’re walking down
the hallway at school or when you're in a meeting at work. Something as simple
as smiling at someone, or saying "hi", can really show that you care
about them. Giving compliments to people often boost their self esteem.
However, you don't need to lie to give a compliment. All you have to do is
comment on the things you like about the person. For example saying "Your
hair looks really nice today" or "You’re really funny" can
really stick to someone and can change their whole day around.
The other day, I was sitting in the waiting room with my grandmother at
the doctor's office and I came across an elderly woman. She was carrying many
bags, while balancing on a walker. She looked like she was struggling. Without
noticing, she dropped her keys. I
immediately thought to myself "Go pick up her keys. It would be a big help
to her." At first I hesitated. I don't why, but I just felt that it wasn't
a big deal. On the other hand, I knew that if I picked up her keys, how much
joy I would receive afterwards. How proud I would be for helping her and how
others would view me as kind and caring. So I made my decision. I got up from
my seat and walked over to her, bent down, and picked up her keys. She smiled
and thanked me. Even though it was something small, I knew she really
appreciated it.
You may not always realize it, but the little things you do can impact a
person greatly. Why would you pass out on the opportunity to make someone's day
just a smidge better? You don't have to do anything big or special. All you
have to do is take a little time out of your busy life and acknowledge others
around you. It’s not hard. In fact, when you share love and kindness towards
someone it makes you feel good. One of my favorite quotes relates to this
message. "It's not the great things you do, but the small things you do
with great love" Mother Teresa. So next time you see someone struggling at
the grocery store, or sitting alone at lunch, take a step back, notice them,
help them, and brighten their day.
